Common Mistakes Men Make in Relationships

Unlike their female counterparts, men are over possessive when they are in any relationship even when they are not ready to settle down and its just for one reason "jealousy" which really destroys. A man does not want to see his partner with another man no matter who he is. He wants to protect her with the same jealousy. In Africa, some go to the extent of making their partners sit at home because he does not want her to out to work so she does not meet other guys out there for fear of losing her and when he passes on (dies), he leaves the poor widow in abject poverty because she does not know where to start.

Another reason why he does not want her to work is for her not to be financial free because he believes she might challenge his authority without considering the fact that she would be a ready made help when financial crisis comes calling. This i can attribute to insecurity on the men's part and fear of the unknown.

Men are overtly chauvinistic and believes its a man's world instead of giving their partners the opportunity to contribute in decision making. They want to do all things according to what they think without minding her feelings even when such decisions are not right. It is a kind of anything i say is "final attitude". For you to get the best out of any relationship, try as much as possible to desist from acts like these because the average woman sees such as dictatorship and a signal to run fast and you know what that means, you start all over again searching for "MISS RIGHT".

More to this is cheating which is common among men either because of their polygamous tendencies or greed. Some simply call it "sampling" because according to them, variety is the spice of life. Please note that the wild oats you sow today has a way of catching up with you tomorrow. You either end up in the thighs of strange (wrong) women and regret all your life or waste your entire fortune recklessly and that is if you are lucky to be alive and count your losses.

In all, it pays to avoid these and have the best you desire in any relationship.

Mistakes Most Ladies do in relationships.

In a relationship which involves two adults (man and woman), it is only natural that they step on each others toes once in a while but it is often better when they try as much as possible to reduce the number of times.

Now back to our topic, ladies most times are too negative and critical just because of insecurity especially when they just get a new catch.

This leads to the next mistake of talking too much and trying to please her partner even when it is not required. Do not attempt to please any man as this puts them off. Only be natural, be yourself, he will appreciate you for who you are.

Next is being too fast as in suggesting things about marriage and the future with the guy they just met. Sincerely, it turns the men off as he is not even sure of what he feels for you and needs time to allow the reality of the whole scenario sink into his subconsciousness.

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